Friday, November 25, 2011

My wife wants me to go to a couples club called Encounters to swing. How do I tell her I hate Big Band music?

Also, this club charges $25 for men and is free for women to enter which seems unfair. I've had headaches lately and the last thing I want to do is spend my Friday listening to Big Band swing music. Maybe I should let her go alone?My wife wants me to go to a couples club called Encounters to swing. How do I tell her I hate Big Band music?
*ha *ha Well, you better go or she might Swing with another man.My wife wants me to go to a couples club called Encounters to swing. How do I tell her I hate Big Band music?
I can't stand Big Band music either! I would just send her by herself and let her go swing with some other people. I'll bet when she gets home she be worn out and ready to snuggle.





I let my wife go by herself and I can't believe how late those things go, she didn't get home until about 3:30 am!!! They must really dance a lot too because her clothes, her hair and her make up were all messed up. She also wasn't wearing any underwear either. I figured she worked up such a sweat dancing that she had to take them off in the bathroom or something.
If they charge $25 for men and free for women, it is a pretty clear indication that they need an added incentive to get women in the door, as the population of men is much greater. I suggest finding a different place with better music and a more evenly matched crowd.
I've got a good idea for you to save money. Dress as a woman and go with your wife as one of her friends. I think you need to check it out and not let your wife go alone. I'm also pretty sure you won't be there for very long, anyway.
Sure, let her go alone. Or you could wear earplugs. Maybe get aet to match the blinders you're already wearing.





And pick up some condoms, while you're at the pharmacy.





Good luck. I'm sure she'll enjoy the club.
I'd say go with her. Marriage is full of things you don't want to do, but you do it because it makes your woman happy. Yes, you love her that much that you'll go do something you hate with a headache.
Maybe you should learn what ';swing'; really is. And it has nothing to do with Big Band music!





If you want to end your marriage fast, then go with her - swinging will kill a marriage.
No I wouldn't go and I don't think she should either, I think she needs to see that you are in pain and try and help you :)
she knows you have been getting headaches lately so if you back out she will understand.....If you dont want to send her alone then tell her to take her bilingual friend along.
LOL...let her go alone.





Come to my house where it is quiet. Bring your ear plugs, in case I get loud.
wong kind of ';Swing';. Couples clubs are more like playgrounds with slides and monkey bars. Go! It will be fun!
yes, let her go alone. im sure shell be 'swinging' with another guy real soon!! :))
hey if you don't mind your ol'lady out there spreading them for other people neither do we so sh!t i say let her go
afraid ur 'band' wont match up to the other 'big bands' in the room?? =))
let her go alone.. hehe
Thanks. I needed to laugh today :-)
you said your wife was boring?

What are some cool Halloween costume ideas for couples?

I'm trying my best to avoid those cheesy and lame costumes (i.e. plug and outlet) and I have exhausted myself looking through websites and Halloween stores. I wouldn't mind creating a costume from scratch, as long as it's worth it. Thanks for the suggestions!What are some cool Halloween costume ideas for couples?
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What about Him being a cop and you be a prisoner.





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What are some cool Halloween costume ideas for couples?
Why not go the Hollywood route? Lots of celebrity couples would make clever, and possibly cheap, costumes. Some ideas:





-Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie (Carry around a half-dozen Cabbage Patch kids of assorted race and gender)


-JLo and Marc Anthony (M.A. should be zombie/vampie, JLo should be holding twin babies)


-John McCain and Sarah Palin


-Britney and K-Fed


-Spencer and Heidi (from The Hills) as zombies/Children of the Corn


-Carrie and Big (from Sex and the City)


-New York and Tailor Made (from I Love New York)


-Michael Jackson and Pamela Anderson


-Miley and Billy Ray Cyrus


-Michael Phelps and his mom


-Misty May and Kerri Walsh


-Lindsay Lohan and Samantha Ronson


-Tim Gunn and Heidi Klum


-Bert and Ernie (from Sesame Street)
what about some characters?


such as: flintstons( fred and vilma) or addams family (morticia and (sorry, forgot his name)


hope i helped
raggedy ann and andy ann
salt and pepper. devil and angel. simon cowwel and paula simon!!!
I'm being a gothic Hannah Montana

Is it me or is it disgusting when couples dress exactly alike on purpose?

I can understand an accident, but purposely dressing exactly alike is strange. Is this just my jaded perspective?Is it me or is it disgusting when couples dress exactly alike on purpose?
the worst were the burberry chavsIs it me or is it disgusting when couples dress exactly alike on purpose?
My senior friends , from high-school , tell me that when I get a boyfriend , I should never color coordinate with them or dress-alike or they will pop me in the head ... I don't understand why not . It's cute sometimes , but not all the time . Kinda disgusting ,yeah .haha .
I especially like the ones that finish each other's scentences and do their own talking for each other. They will insert a word into the other's statement.





It's very entertaining, and frightening all at the same time!
LOL, that sounds pretty cheesy, I dont know of any that do that, its a good thing though, I would probably tell them that they look stupid.
Those couples are usually the ones with the most skeletons in their closets.
what about matching license plates? I had a neighbor that did that. the wife had ';TruLov1'; and the husband had ';TruLov2';
Even worse is mothers/daughters dressing alike and fathers/sons
i dont think its disgusting or strange, to be honest it doesnt bother me. but while we are talking about what bothers me... what's with your avator......?
The wife has him brainwashed,, or she is great in bed
whatever tickles their fancy


Personally... i think its really sad! Lol


But Each to their own
I dress in the same attire as my wife
It's only cute when they are 80 years old;-)
i don't think it is as bad as when ';big'; girls where skimpy clothes that show a little too much!
Yes, this one guy looked like a blimey two-foot rule in those heels.
I think its creepy, and too corny and cheesy.
It`s oddball that`s for sure,
yeAH! ITS sooo WiErd!
LMAO
It is pretty weird
It's odd, but whatever floats their boat.
I hate that as well.
girls will say it's cute and guys will say he is whipped.
Ugh I hate it.


Makes me want to vomit.
no i think it's kinda cute verging on creepy
yeah its kinda really weird
meh...i couldnt' really care less


its ok i guess but i wouldn't do it
you mean in matching lingerie or what?
It's you.
i cant stand it either


i don't see many doing that though
no..


itz not strange..


ur jus jelous probably that u


dont have a boyfriend...


itz cute...and it shows tha love


they have between eachother

Is Couples Negril all inclusive resort a swingers resort?

My husband and I are planning a trip to Couples Negril in Jamaica. I have heard from a friend that this could possibly be a swingers resort. We're just not into that kind of thing, and would like to know what we're in for before we get there. Thanks!Is Couples Negril all inclusive resort a swingers resort?
While it welcomes people of all walks of life, it does not specifically cater to swingers, neither are most of their clientele swingers. However there is a nude beach and adults are free to engage in these acts (not publicly of- course) if they so choose.Is Couples Negril all inclusive resort a swingers resort?
No, it isn't. I was at Couples Negril in 07 and I'm going back later this year. I highly recomend this resort to anyone who is looking for a romantic vacation.
No it is not.





Hedonism is. There are two Hedonism Hotels in Jamaica.
ALL INCLUSIVE RESORT. NO SWINGING.
nope... go to sandals hedonism is kinda.... freaky filled with gays and naked people you can go if u like that type of stuff
no not at all...you're thinking of hendonism.
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  • Making a guest list for a small informal couples party?

    My husband and I have alot of friends, but few who know each other. Has anyone ever heard of a party invitation where the hostess asks the guests to bring a friend/friends? That way they have someone they can hang with and feel comfortable.Making a guest list for a small informal couples party?
    Yes, you could definitely do that.





    You could also play some ice-breaker games, which get people talking and introduced to one another.





    For example, one is called the Match Game.





    The Match Game is a great way to get everyone mixing and mingling at your party!





    Before the party, make a list of famous couples. For example, Anthony and Cleopatra, etc. write the name of one half of the famous couple on one name tag, and the other name on another name tag.





    As guests arrive, place a name tag on each guest's back (in random order). Tell each guest to mingle, asking yes or no questions about themselves (the name their back), until he or she finds their ';other half';. Once each member of the famous couple finds each other, they can put on their name tags.





    Good luck!Making a guest list for a small informal couples party?
    I have! I usually have to because my friends are from all over and might end up lonely. It helps, but if they're social people, it might be nice to just introduce them and let them mingle!
    I have heard if you have an odd number of guests, people tend to mingle more.

    Do couples that elope generally receive wedding presents?

    For various reasons, we are probably eloping rather than having a traditional wedding. My greedy side was just wondering, do couples that elope generally still receive some wedding gifts after the fact?Do couples that elope generally receive wedding presents?
    Eloping couples usually gets a few gifts but not many. People are more likely to give a gift if they get to see and participate in the special event.Do couples that elope generally receive wedding presents?
    Much depends on your friends, your parents' friends, and your famillies and how they feel about you. My friend eloped last year; she got lots of stuff.





    If a close friend elopes, I would buy her a present. I don't agree that eloping is the same as ';shunning'; your loved ones. Everyone I know who eloped did it because of financial constraints. I would much rather give a present to those needy couples than to a couple who can afford to spend mega bucks on a wedding.





    On the other hand, if the same friend had an actual wedding of any size and didn't invite me, I would congratulate her but not give a gift.
    Generally no, but possibly yes from the parents. Just because you dont have a wedding ceremony, you can still have a reception which could get u gifts.


    You can say, ';Our marriage was intimate and private, but we still wish to share our happiness with family and friends with an informal reception.'; Then u could get away with having a barbeque or potluck at the residence. And gifts will likely flow in.
    being a former wedding coordinator...no your on your own...you cant expect to shun your guest and family and then turn around and say wheres my gifts? totally bad taste. Now if you prefer what you can do is get invitations made, let them know you ARE married and that you eloped, include a picture of your wedding, and that you are registered at......such and such place.





    But remember you are also taking a risk in offending family and friends by not inviting them also. Kinda like a catch 22 I do not recommend eloping, eloping is for couples that have families that despise the bride and groom or families, as romantic as it may seem, if you want to include the invitation, then include why you eloped...make it sound whimsical..magical..romantic. if you need help let me know





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    Most receive some after the fact. For instance, when my childhood friend married, he and his bride sent out announcements that announced their marriage and their new address. I sent them a gift. Didn't matter to me that they eloped rather than have a wedding. I was happy for them and a gift was appropriate and affordable at the time. I would hazard to guess that the couple only receives gifts from close family and friends.
    Not that I know of. I know a lot of people that have eloped and I or anyone I know have given gifts. I guess since it isn't announced people don't give gifts. Sorry but unless you have some sort of get together I don't think people feel like they need to get you anything. Good Luck and Congrats!!!
    only if you have friends and family who are thoughtful... you can always have a little party to celebrate that you got married. invite people over and have a celebration of your marriage with them, do it informal but send out invites then maybe people will bring you gifts.
    If you sent out a wedding announcement, some people might choose to send you a gift.


    I know that if a close friend/relative eloped and there were no parties planned to celebrate that I would probably send a congratulatory card %26amp; gift.
    The general idea behind elopement is no wedding. No wedding means no wedding guests which means no wedding presents.


    In addition, elopement means nobody will plan a shower or jack and jill. This means no shower presents.
    No, sorry, not really. Perhaps if you send out announcements after the elopement, your family MAY (and I say ';may';) send you some money and/or a gift, but generally I would say they will not.
    Not generally,
    I would have to say probably not. Unless you have some kind of party to celebrate
    no because no one is going to know you got married

    What is the average amount of time before couples start having children?

    I'm getting married in a couple of months, and I just want to know when the average American couple starts talking kids. Now, please don't give me ';it depends on........';, Just a number, thank you!!What is the average amount of time before couples start having children?
    most couples have kids either before they marry or a year or 2 afterwardsWhat is the average amount of time before couples start having children?
    whenever you are ready, I had my first 2 1/2 years befor we got married and 2 months pregnant when we got married. We are extreamly happy.
    About 6 to 12 months.
    Probably around 2-3 years after marriage.
    we just got married in october but we've been trying for a little one since last october
    I think like a year or two.


    Thats how is was for us.
    No specific time, people seem to be having kids later in life nowadays: 30's
    a year to two years
    The is a number for that?


    wow
    Sometimes it could be on the first date!!
    Well u should start having kids if u think u can handle it, And u can surport the baby when it come out. If u ca't surport it right now don't have one.


    Best of luck!