Why is infidelity considered grounds for divorce for most couples?

A considered reply would be much appreciated. I am curious about the efficacy of monogamy.Why is infidelity considered grounds for divorce for most couples?
It almost destroyed my marriage and here's the answer!


Men are Visually motivated, where women are emotionally motivated!


so if either of these are violated then you have a situation that will be ground for just about anything including violence, divorce and worse!





My marriage survived but GOD the hell we went though was nothing I could do again!





Monogamy save the DRAMA and keeps the marriage at least when both party's are involved in it a chance at building something to be proud of, and that would be a life together~Why is infidelity considered grounds for divorce for most couples?
Well when you get married you are supposed to do so forsaking all others. This is an agreement you enter into between you, your spouse and God. Breaking this agreement is grounds for divorce. Now, if you are not a religious person and do not cotton to this answer then you probably don't need to get married in the first place since it is a holy union and if you do not believe in a God then why go through the motions. Without God a wedding is nothing but a pretty parade and a nice party.





When you get married, usually the desired outcome is a lifetime with the other person. If you are not faithful in that then once again, what are you doing it for? If you cannot commit then just walk away, even if your spouse agrees and you guys have an ';open marriage';, which is a joke.
It is grounds for divorce because it is a breech of the marriage contract. When you get married you are agreeing to only have sex with your spouse. This insures that any children that are born belong to both people, that no one brings home diseases, and that all the families resources and energy is used to better the family and not an extramarital affair.
top reason is money,t


hen Infidelity.


Poor communication


Change in priorities. This can be caused by having kids or due to ones job, big things.


Lack of commitment to the marriage.


Sexual problems.


Other reasons that come up frequently, but not as frequently are:


Addictions


Failed expectations of your spouse (believing one is a super hero or that he/she can fix or be everything to or for you)


Physical, emotional or sexual abuse.
Personally if my husband cheated on me I would feel like he doesn't love me, feel there is someone out there better for him, I would feel the need to always compare myself to others, feel that he didn't take our vows to heart, feel that he was selfish, feel that he had no respect for me at all, feel that he was unattracted to me..





I would never want to continue to feel this way throughout my whole life, therefore if he cheated on me I would have to get a divorce.
Because it's the worst kind of betrayal that doesn't involve physical harm. Short of hitting your spouse with a car or a baseball bat, there's very little you can do to cause them more pain than committing infidelity.
Because you pledge your commitment to your spouse. There should never be anything outside of the marriage that is not agreed upon by both.
Touching your cousin at the family BBQ is OK, Loosey. It's when you grope the cousin's wife that things get iffy.
Because it's usually considered a breach of contract.
Because it breaks the marriage bond.





First of all, it breaks the contract between your spouse and God. For US, we both promised before God, and family and friends, to FORSAKE ALL OTHERS......betraying another human is one thing, betraying God is something I wouldn't even want to THINK about. A marriage between Catholics is not a Twosome....it is a Holy Trinity of God, Husband and Wife......so when you betray your spouse, you betray our Lord as well......





We are married until death do we part. Adultery KILLS the contract, thus having ';Until Death'; do we part.